I’ve decided that life is like this. 

There’s a tray with two types of muffins. 

Chocolate or bran. 

At any one moment I have the choice. 

Chocolate or bran?

I used to think that it was an “or” kind of thing. 

Now I know it’s an and. 

I can have both and be a lot happier.

It’s all about a balanced approach. Sometimes I choose this…And sometimes I choose that…but over time it all works out pretty nicely.